Cancel a trade when I already have the disc?

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sgand replied on 09-04-2010 8:39 PM

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You leave negative

He disputes it

You hit cancel trade

Make sure he pays for you to ship it back first.

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sgand replied on 09-05-2010 7:44 AM

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pugmagician:

sgand:

You leave negative

He disputes it

You hit cancel trade

 

Make sure he pays for you to ship it back first.

Wrong, that would put the OP in the back of the line for it, it should go:

You leave Negative

He disputes it

He hits "Cancel Trade"

You Accept it

He Pays for shipping for the disc if he wants it back.

 

Wow, you're completely right. Don't know where my head was when I said that. He needs to initiate the cancel.

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tkszeto replied on 09-05-2010 10:17 AM

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pugmagician:

sgand:

You leave negative

He disputes it

You hit cancel trade

Make sure he pays for you to ship it back first.

Wrong, that would put the OP in the back of the line for it, it should go:

You leave Negative

He disputes it

He hits "Cancel Trade"

You Accept it

He Pays for shipping for the disc if he wants it back.

Ummmm, I believe this is also wrong.  What you should do:

You leave negative.

He disputes it.

You both agree to cancel.

You escalate to Goozex stating you both wish to cancel.

Let Goozex handle it from there.

Reason:  If you do that cancel yourselves,  there is now no obligation to send the game back (integrity aside).  I got screwed out of a game this way when we cancelled and the buyer never sent me my game back.  Goozex responded that escalation within the dispute centre is the proper way to do it.

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pugmagician replied on 09-05-2010 10:45 AM

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tkszeto:

pugmagician:

sgand:

You leave negative

He disputes it

You hit cancel trade

Make sure he pays for you to ship it back first.

Wrong, that would put the OP in the back of the line for it, it should go:

You leave Negative

He disputes it

He hits "Cancel Trade"

You Accept it

He Pays for shipping for the disc if he wants it back.

Ummmm, I believe this is also wrong.  What you should do:

You leave negative.

He disputes it.

You both agree to cancel.

You escalate to Goozex stating you both wish to cancel.

Let Goozex handle it from there.

Reason:  If you do that cancel yourselves,  there is now no obligation to send the game back (integrity aside).  I got screwed out of a game this way when we cancelled and the buyer never sent me my game back.  Goozex responded that escalation within the dispute centre is the proper way to do it.

Yes, I'm sure the OP wants to wait weeks on end before he can request the game again. Also how do you even know if the seller wants the game back?

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tkszeto replied on 09-05-2010 10:50 AM

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pugmagician:

Yes, I'm sure the OP wants to wait weeks on end before he can request the game again. Also how do you even know if the seller wants the game back?

Regardless of whether or not he wants to wait weeks, that is the proper way to do it.

How do you know if the seller wants the game back???  You ask. 

Not sure why are even mentioning this, in your response you even stated to ship the game back, so obviously you assumed he wants his game back.

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killmak replied on 09-05-2010 11:14 AM

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tkszeto:

pugmagician:

Yes, I'm sure the OP wants to wait weeks on end before he can request the game again. Also how do you even know if the seller wants the game back?

 

Regardless of whether or not he wants to wait weeks, that is the proper way to do it.

How do you know if the seller wants the game back???  You ask. 

Not sure why are even mentioning this, in your response you even stated to ship the game back, so obviously you assumed he wants his game back.

Tkszeto is right that is the proper way to go about a cancellation as once the trade is canceled the buyer is under no obligation to send the game back to the seller.  Some people will accept the cancellation then just keep the game as some people are asshats.  The OP probably isnt one of those people but doing it the way you suggested is risky for the seller.

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pugmagician replied on 09-05-2010 11:29 AM

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tkszeto:

Not sure why are even mentioning this, in your response you even stated to ship the game back, so obviously you assumed he wants his game back.

pugmagician:

He Pays for shipping for the disc if he wants it back.

 

read much, and you two have fun with the crappy Goozex support.

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tkszeto replied on 09-05-2010 11:35 AM

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pugmagician:

tkszeto:

Not sure why are even mentioning this, in your response you even stated to ship the game back, so obviously you assumed he wants his game back.

pugmagician:

He Pays for shipping for the disc if he wants it back.

read much, and you two have fun with the crappy Goozex support.

Ummm, did I say something to offend you or something?  You've been pretty agressive in shooting down my advice.  Just trying to tell the OP the proper way to do things...  Please read my complete post (quoted below) if you are going to be like that...  You mentioned "if he wants it back", I said "you ask".  Not much difference there.

tkszeto:

Regardless of whether or not he wants to wait weeks, that is the proper way to do it.

How do you know if the seller wants the game back???  You ask. 

Not sure why are even mentioning this, in your response you even stated to ship the game back, so obviously you assumed he wants his game back.

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TenTonHammer23 replied on 09-05-2010 11:37 AM

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You need to keep the trade active in some way till  the seller gets the game back in his possession.  Thats what the center is set up for, so no one gets screwed.  Calm down pug.

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pugmagician replied on 09-05-2010 11:41 AM

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Sorry, I seem to be pissed off all the time anymore, and it's usually never at the people I go off on.

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Outlaw91 replied on 09-05-2010 3:30 PM

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pugmagician:

Sorry, I seem to be pissed off all the time anymore, and it's usually never at the people I go off on.

If you have the money see a therapist. Or better yet take a vacation. And I'm not being a smartass i'm being serious. It's not healthy to carry around all that pent up aggresion. If it's your thing take a martial arts class.

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pugmagician replied on 09-05-2010 3:38 PM

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Outlaw91:

pugmagician:

Sorry, I seem to be pissed off all the time anymore, and it's usually never at the people I go off on.

 

If you have the money see a therapist. Or better yet take a vacation. And I'm not being a smartass i'm being serious. It's not healthy to carry around all that pent up aggresion. If it's your thing take a martial arts class.

My wife separated me a few weeks ago ***. I have every reason to be moody lately!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Outlaw91 replied on 09-05-2010 3:45 PM

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pugmagician:

Outlaw91:

pugmagician:

Sorry, I seem to be pissed off all the time anymore, and it's usually never at the people I go off on.

 

If you have the money see a therapist. Or better yet take a vacation. And I'm not being a smartass i'm being serious. It's not healthy to carry around all that pent up aggresion. If it's your thing take a martial arts class.

My wife separated me a few weeks ago ***. I have every reason to be moody lately!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Sorry to hear that. Rage on!!!